And so another Thanksgiving has come and gone.
As always, I attempt to participate in the 30 days of gratitude on social media, and I tend to do well at the beginning of the month, but always seem to forget towards the end. That’s fine though, because when I forget…its because I’m out enjoying life…finding more moments to be grateful for.
Adopting an attitude of gratitude these days can be quite trying, to be honest. Everyone is offended by everything these days. Its all “PC” and “Trigger Warnings” and “I’m offended by that” and “That’s cultural appropriation.”
People are judged by the color of their skin. Their religious beliefs. What they wear. What they listen to. What they eat, for crying out loud.
The world is a crazy place right now.
Yet, in the midst of all of this, even with seasonal depression rearing its ugly head, I have hope, and I am grateful.
I’m grateful for an amazing, loving family, crazy as they are. I’ve had such an incredible amount of support from my entire family this last year, it blows my mind.
I have a solid group of friends: TRUE friends…people who don’t judge. They offer encouragement. Support. An ear. Love. Food. Hugs. Advice. We have game nights, and poker, and wine and cheese nights, and D&D nights, and Hogswatch, and dance days, and sushi dates, and baby hugs, and Godtoddlers, and book clubs, and Sunday Dinner. We trade stories, and clothing, and books. We’re affectionate and loving.
I actually have a pretty great group of online friends too…mostly new friends, but ones who listen, give solid advice, and who are just really freaking cool women.
I had another surgery on my kidney, which seems to have really helped, if not completely solved my pain problem. It may be too soon to tell for long term, but I have been mostly pain free since July. I have a handful of days where I experience pain, but its not nearly as bad as it used to be. My surgeon took plenty of precautions to make sure that I healed well, and I’m grateful.
I’ve started dancing again. Through the support of one of my best friends, I entered my very first belly dance competition this past September. I performed for the first time in 4 years on the Flamingo Library Stage. I made it into the top 12 dancers! Not too shabby for 2 months post surgery. I fulfilled a 12 year dream: I improvised a drum solo to live accompaniment by Issam Houshan! Since the competition, I’ve performed with 3 other amazing ladies, and we have another performance coming up in January. I have ideas for a new solo for myself, and have a couple of duet ideas in the works too. Through the competition, I met and reconnected with several dancers who are awesome people.
On November 6, I married the love of my life. Yes, that’s right dear readers. I don’t think I ever actually updated about the proposal…but Morgan and I married just 3 weeks ago. It was a beautiful day: The ceremony was hilarious, and we were surrounded by loved ones…Morgan’s dad and oldest friend from Alaska even came, which meant the world to us.
And so, of course, I’m grateful for my husband. My best friend. My lover. My partner in crime…my partner in life. The man who puts up with my crazy. My lazy. My scared. My silly. My rock…the one with the cool head and logic…with the huge heart, incredible mind, and such passion. Morgan knows EVERYTHING about me, and chooses every day to love me…even though I hate putting laundry away, and I’m obsessed with Doctor Who, and I’m overly sensitive sometimes. Being married has been incredible so far. Nothing has changed, and yet, everything has.
I’m grateful for the life I live. Sure there are snags. There are areas I don’t like, and want to change. There are issues, and sadness. There’s uncertainty. Through all of it, and the craziness of the world, though, I choose to feel grateful for what I have. For the amazing people I am so blessed to know, and love.
I can’t possibly tag or mention everyone, but you know who you are. Yes, you. I treasure you. I value you.
And I am grateful.