Its been a while since I wrote last.
I’ll admit, things have been crazy, and I’ve had too much on my plate to think about updating a blog…I apologize, if any of you who read this missed me…although to be honest…I really don’t think anyone reads this very often.
When last I posted, Morgan and I had just moved into our own little apartment.
We’re loving it here.
There have been issues. Our dishwasher is wonky, and has to be turned on with a wrench. The washer broke, and we ended up getting a new (and bigger)one. The refrigerator didn’t work upon our move in, and so we got a new (and bigger) one as well…and had to wait almost 2 weeks for them to change the laundry room door, as it wouldn’t close with the new fridge.
There have been 2 shootings since we moved in, which is never a fun thing…but oddly enough, I don’t really feel unsafe at home. We’re on the 2nd floor, and we have a gun. If anything goes down, I feel secure. But our neighbors are polite, if not super friendly. They keep to themselves, and we keep to ourselves. I like it that way.
We’re pretty settled into a routine. The dogs are doing great.
We finally got Phedra spayed, and also found out that she had pyometra, which can be fatal. (Spay and Neuter your pets, folks, it could save their lives.) She’s recovering really well, thank goodness. She’s actually amazing off leash. She knows “go home” and will run right upstairs when she’s done going potty.
Jack is learning to walk really nicely on leash, instead of pulling, and has recently discovered that he REALLY wants to chase cats. He’s become a lot more vocal too: groaning and moaning when we’re snuggling, if we stop paying attention for a second.
We’ve celebrated our 1st wedding anniversary last weekend. It was really a nice weekend. We spent it mostly by ourselves…during the weekend, we played cards with some friends, and had a nice buffet with my family. But the day of our anniversary, we spent together, with the dogs. We went to the movies (Doctor Strange! So good!), and then Morgan made a delicious steak dinner that was just amazing.
I have also started a Couch to 5K training program. I’m almost done with week 3, and let me tell you, this is the hardest thing I’ve done since P90X.
I’m running a minimum of 3 times a week, and each week, the running time and intervals increase.
Since starting to watch my weight back in September, and since really watching my portions and what I’m eating, I’ve lost 4.8 pounds, and 3.5 inches off my waist. This is without regular exercise. Now that I’m exercising more frequently, and I’m also starting to add to the running (abs yesterday! Ouch!), I can’t wait to see the results.
I’m feeling better. I feel stronger. My joints hurt less, ironically. I thought by trying to run outside on the pavement that my joints would hurt more, but they don’t. I’ve also discovered the beauty of an Epsom salt bath! So relaxing, and it really soothed my aching muscles.
There have still been some rough patches. I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t keep it completely real.
I’ve been having some serious body image issues that are playing into my dance time. Even though I’m making progress physically, I feel like my dancing is off, and I feel stagnant. I know what I need is a good workshop or private lesson to get my creative juices flowing again. I just don’t have the money right now…
Financially, its tight. We’re still paying down old balances from the move/before the move, and are owed over $300 from a previous roommate. We have people who helped us out before the move that we want to pay back, but haven’t been able to yet, because we can’t get the old bills paid off until we get this $300. Its beyond frustrating. Because of this, and because we owe people money, we don’t go out and do things like we used to. Doctor Strange was the first movie that we’ve seen in the theater since WAY before we moved…and that was free from using points at Station casinos. We went to a concert in October, and Universal studios, but only because Morgan donated plasma to get the money for the hotel and gas (the concert tickets were bought LONG before the move and the financial crisis) and our friends payed for us to go to Universal.
We wanted to go to the new Gordon Ramsay restaurant. Its the cheapest one he’s got, at probably $30 per person without extras (fries, shakes)…and we couldn’t do that.
The silver lining to this, as frustrated as I am, is that Morgan has 2 karaoke gigs this month (one was last night) that we can use to pay back 1 of the 3 people we owe. I’ve started making and selling fingerless gloves, so I’m making a little extra money that way. Morgan is still donating plasma to help out with extra money, and we finally have his resume set up, so he can find something part time while we finish the edit of his novel.
They say that the first year of marriage is the hardest. I won’t lie, it has been a ROUGH year. But our marriage has been the easy part. Knowing that we have each other’s backs through all the hard stuff makes it easier to get through the rough patches.
As Thanksgiving fast approaches, and the worst year of a lot of people’s lives draws to a close, I can only remember what I’m truly grateful for, and put out positivity to the Universe for a better year next year.
Stay tuned for my annual Thanksgiving and New Year posts! I should have at least one more coming soon, about this amazing thing I’ve been doing for almost 3 months, Bullet Journaling.
…till next time dear readers.